世上很多事,不是身不由己,就是情非得已。
比如有些人,明明真心相愛,卻不得不分開。
愛是偉大的,愛情卻很脆弱。和很多東西二選一,愛情最容易被放棄。
就像一個朋友,她和前男友分手,不是因為爭吵,不是因為變心,而是因為前程。他有很好的機會要去國外,歸期未定;她是獨生女,有患病的父親要照顧,不可能跟他走。
“我們不是不愛了,而是不能了。”
兩人誰都沒錯,只是人生走到了分岔路口,不得不松開彼此的手。
可最難熬的,從來不是告別的那一刻,而是分開后的惦念。
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他還會在深夜給她發一首歌,歌詞里藏著只有她才懂的暗語;
她偶爾路過他們常去的咖啡館,還是會下意識拍一張照片,卻在發送前猶豫著刪掉。
他們誰都沒有徹底退出對方的生活,卻也不敢再往前一步。
這種模棱兩可,比決絕的分手更傷人。
拒絕至少干脆利落,痛就痛一次。而藕斷絲連的惦念,卻像鈍刀子割肉,每一次聯系都是把結痂的傷口重新撕開。
明明知道不可能,卻還是忍不住在朋友圈里尋找對方的痕跡;明明說好做陌生人,卻總在某個相似的背影前恍惚失神。
她說,最折磨她的是那些“如果”——如果當初他留下呢?如果她不顧一切跟去呢?如果……
可是,人生哪有什么如果?
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有些感情,再深刻,再難忘,也注定沒有結果。
你們比誰都清楚,繼續糾纏只會讓彼此更痛苦,可偏偏又舍不得徹底切斷那根線。
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于是,你們成了彼此通訊錄里最特別的存在——不能相愛,也無法相忘。
但親愛的,你要知道:
真正的告別,不是刪除拉黑,而是即使他還在你的列表里,你也不再期待他的消息;即使回憶還在心里,你也不再為它流淚。
那些不得已的放手,終有一天會變成你生命里的一段往事。
你會記得曾經有個人,讓你心甘情愿地妥協過,也讓你痛徹心扉地清醒過。而當你終于能夠平靜地談起他時,你會發現——
原來時間真的能治愈一切,只是它從不會提前告訴你答案。
所以,別再為難自己了。
該斷的線,就讓它斷吧。
該放的手,就松開吧。
有些人,注定只能陪你走一段路。
而你要做的,是繼續往前走。
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