很喜歡楊絳先生說的一句話：無論什么關系，情分被消耗殆盡，緣分便走到了終點。把錯歸咎于自己，并且禮貌地退場。把自己還給自己，把別人還給別人，讓花成花，讓樹成樹，從此山水一程，再不相逢，愿來生，不見，不欠，不念。

人這一生，會遇到很多人，有的人會成為你的朋友，有的人會成為你過客，不管是誰，其實都會有自己的選擇，無論我們與別人現在是什么關系，以后又是什么關系，我們都不要去怨恨，更不要與別人計較。

人生都是不可預見的，哪怕跟你關系很好的人，有一天要選擇跟你分道揚鑣，我們也要選擇去尊重別人，成全別人，不必糾纏。

在這個世界上，你能夠遇到的人，無論你在你身邊停留了很多，還是從你的全世界路過的人，我們都要感恩相遇，不負遇見。

余生短暫，一晃就過去了，我們要學會放過自己，不要糾纏。讓一切該來的來，該走的走，用心甘情愿的態度去過隨遇而安的生活，如此就好。

一、放過自己，不必為了不值得的人糾纏。

很欣賞楊絳的這一句話：你可能在一個人面前，一文不值。卻在另一個人面前，是無價之寶。做你自己，愛你的人，自然愛你。謹記自己的價值所在，這就是，人活著的道理。

是的。

深以為然。

在這個世界上，必然是有人愛你的，有的人不愛你，在愛你的人眼中，你就是寶貝，在不愛你的人眼中，你就是一文不值。

也只有不愛你的人，才會選擇離開你，不會一直愛著你，他們的離開，正說明就是不值得的人，我們不必為了這些不值得的人委屈自己，不必去求他們留下來，也不必去糾纏，越糾纏越卑微。

我們盡管放過自己，看開所有的感情經歷，活得通透的人，懶得去挽留那些主動離去的人，自己反而活得不痛苦。

二、放過自己，不要跟別人糾纏太多。

楊絳說的好，活得通透的人 ，沒有特別想維持的關系 ，也沒有特別想要的東西 ，走近的人不抗拒 ，離開的人不強留 ，就連吃虧也懶得計較。

在生活中，我們不要是跟誰相處，遇到爭執的時候，我們不必去跟別人吵來吵去，不要去跟別人糾纏太多，過于較勁，只會讓自己更加心累。

如果你看不慣一個人，那么你就記住這三句話：不爭，以退為進；不理，沉默是金；不怒，放過自己。

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人生雞皮蒜毛的事情總是很多，我們真的不必為難別人，也不必折磨自己。

而是一切想開看開，如果一段關系需要讓你受盡委屈，讓你去討好迎合，讓你去為難你自己，那么這樣的關系不真誠。

你要知道，在乎你的人，不會讓你哭，讓你哭的人不在乎你。

不要因為一些人，一些事情，把自己逼到抑郁，不要把自己氣的一身病痛，所有的事情，除了生死以外，都是小事，都是擦傷而已，沒不要在意太多。

人這一生， 盡管好好愛自己。