文/飛魚

錢鐘書先生說過，“第一次見你的時候，我的心里已經炸成了煙花，需要用一生來打掃灰爐。”

愛情就是這個樣子，還沒見到你之前，不知道會遇到誰，自從見到你之后，就再也不想遇到誰了。

人與人之間，始于相遇，從遇見中相識，或是一見鐘情，二見傾心，愛上一個人，真的是無需什么理由。

那么如何判斷一個男人是不是對你動了真情呢？

有人說，“戀愛就是仔細觀察一個人的過程，我們最后愛的人，我們一定知道他的不完美，也會接受他的不完美。你會知道他不夠帥，不夠高；但你也知道他溫柔、明亮，讓你想起和他的未來嘴角就有笑意。戀愛就是一個人的美勝過了他的不美，比較之后他仍然讓你心動。”

深以為然。

日久生情，時間才是最好的見證者。

一個人若是真的對你動了真情，那么時間也會告訴你，他最明顯的反應，就是以下這三種。

一、主動聯系你。

沒有愛上一個人的時候是無動于衷的，因為愛總是會有力量的。

愛上一個人，不會無動于衷，始終會蠢蠢欲動，即使再成熟的男人，當他愛上了一個人女人，對一個女人動了真情之后，首先就是想要去跟她有聯系，就會主動去聯系她，誰先主動，誰就先愛上了。

想起《親愛的仇敵》中的周穆生，他第一次見到羅曼的時候，就已經被羅曼有趣的靈魂深深吸引，之后，他就想要取得她的聯系，然后主動去發信息給她，希望能夠再次見面。

周穆生對羅曼的好感一直在加深，從不想邀請她去家里到想要留她住下來，每天不斷給她發信息，各種問候和關心，回到家里，還會主動給她做飯，也能夠付出自己的時間去陪伴她，跟她做很多有趣的事情，這就是動情了。

一個男人對你動了真情，最直接的表現就是主動聯系你，別不知道。

二、熱情幫你，對你的事情很上心。

一個男人其實不會無緣無故幫你，或許就是看上你了， 或許就是真的對你動了真情，真的是愛上你了，面對你的事情，他都很上心，都很熱情去幫你。

他也會很關心你，忍不住關心，非常細心，也很貼心。

男人只有真的是對你動情之后，才會關心你的事情，知道你遇到難事了，或是家里出現什么急事，大事的時候，他會默默在背后幫你，幫你找關系，幫你處理好了，甚至還不想讓你知道。

想起《親愛的仇敵》中的周老板對羅曼就是如此，當他知道羅曼的爸爸生病做手術，但是異地就醫，難以約上號，就偷偷動用了關系幫她，羅曼卻不知道是他做的，意味著是別人，最終從別人口中才知道是他在幫自己。

一個男人如果不是真的喜歡你，對你的事情是漠不關心的，只有真心喜歡你的人才會如此對待你。

三、總想跟你更親近。

一個男人是不是對你動情了，從他的肢體語言中一看便知。

男人的愛，身體表現更誠實，他愛不愛你，是不是喜歡上你了，他對你的感覺是不一樣的。

男人對你動情了，才會忍不住想要靠近你，更你親近，想要跟你接觸，會有很直接的生理反應，他的眼睛里裝的都是你，目光總是會跟隨你，總是能夠關注到你。

不可否認，他是真的喜歡上你了，連聊天的時候，身體都會傾向你這邊，跟你在一起的時候，總是想著去牽到你的手。

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正如《半熟戀人》中的侯成杰，他是真的對窩窩動情了，才對窩窩各種跟隨，窩窩在哪里，他就在的哪里，他花掉自己所有的時間都用在窩窩身上，在她生病的時候，陪她去醫院，回到家里又細心照顧她，寧愿自己不睡覺，也會做好半夜起來看看她。

當他們兩個出去玩的時候，侯成杰總是多次想要牽手，卻又不敢，都是要尊重窩窩，只有問過窩窩之后，才會十指相扣。

所以，男人是不是對你動情了，這種親近感，真的很明顯。

希望你也能遇到一個真心相愛的人，彼此相互珍惜，相互尊重，擁有長久的感情和穩穩的幸福。