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在這個世界上，人性總是這樣，希望你過得好，但又不希望你過得比他好。

因此，我們都不要高估人性，人性很現實，我們做人做事，低調就好，少說話，多做事。

漸漸地，你會明白，別人的事，與你無關就好。你不要閑談是非，管好自己的嘴巴，別逢人就說自己的事情。

知人知面不知心，人前一套，背后一套的人很多。

所以，我們不能隨便對人亮出自己的底牌。

人過五十，不管在誰面前，都不能亮出這4張底牌。

一、 藏起情感經歷

人生在世，或許你會有不少的情感經歷，也許你會遇到很多人，但不同的人會帶給你不同的感受，我們所遇到的人，其實都是人生的必然，無論曾經有多少愛恨情仇，都不要逢人就說自己的情感經歷。

在這個世界上，根本就沒有人會對你感同身受， 人與人之間，聽一次是新鮮，聽多了，就會反感。

更不要拿自己的情感經歷去教育別人，因為別人不需要你的說教。

人過五十，懂得藏起自己的情感經歷，無論面對誰，都要保持內心的淡定和從容，才能看到人生最美的風景。

二、藏起家庭私事

家家都有一本難念的經，不管你家里有什么事情，都不要隨便跟別人說。

家事不要外傳，才能讓你的家庭更加和睦。

反而家里有一點雞皮算毛的事情都跟外人說，別人都知道了，各種評論和嘲諷，對家人來說，其實是很難受的。

比如說，你孩子最近在家里做手工活，每天能夠賺多少錢，于是你就告訴了別人，別人就會各種外傳，本來也就賺個百來塊，卻有人傳到了每天賺幾百塊，然后說你的孩子不帶著他們一起賺錢，就嫉妒你們家。

人過五十，學會藏起家庭私事，對家庭氛圍會更好。

三、藏起健康情況

人過五十，不管你在誰面前，都不要隨便跟別人提起你的身體出現什么情況，你也不要讓別人隨便看到你隱私。

你的身體情況報告，最好就是藏好，這些隱私都是很重要的信息，一旦泄露出去，只會給自己帶來很多的麻煩。

成年人的世界里，利益紛爭與人性善惡交織，一旦自己的身體健康情況被別人知道了，別人可能就會開始利用你了，或是利用你的家人了。

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四、藏起人脈資源

人過五十，與別人相處，自己也要懂得留心眼，不要高估你與任何人的關系，忘恩負義的人很多，不要隨便干涉別人的因果，不要太心軟去幫一些不該幫的人。

當別人讓你把自己的人脈資源給他們的時候，說只是借用一下，一旦你毫無保留給出去了，可能你還要為他們收拾爛攤子。

人過五十，幫人辦事一定要有自己的分寸，不要讓人隨便消耗你的社會關系，不然吃虧的還是自己。

楊絳先生說過，人這一輩子，不會騙人、不會哄人，不會演戲，不會玩套路，你在社會上將寸步難行，活得無比痛苦。不管和誰相處，你都是真心實意的，你將會傷痕累累。

人過五十，最智慧的活法，就是不能隨便在別人面前亮出自己的四張底牌。