曉雯和劉洋的結(jié)婚紀(jì)念日，總過得像模像樣。他會(huì)提前訂好米其林餐廳，送她限量版的香水，朋友圈里的照片永遠(yuǎn)配著 “愛你如初” 的文案，惹得同事都羨慕她嫁得好。

但只有曉雯知道，這些儀式感更像是一場(chǎng)表演。上周她加班到深夜，想讓劉洋來接她，他卻說 “朋友在酒吧等我”；她來例假疼得蜷在床上，他卻在客廳和游戲隊(duì)友開黑；她母親生病住院，他以 “要開會(huì)” 為由，一次都沒去過醫(yī)院。

最讓她委屈的是那次同學(xué)聚會(huì)。有人問起她最近在做的項(xiàng)目，劉洋搶著說：“她那工作沒什么意思，早晚得辭了在家?guī)Ш⒆印！?曉雯愣住了，那是她熬了無數(shù)個(gè)夜晚才爭(zhēng)取到的項(xiàng)目，他卻輕描淡寫地否定了。

他們的紀(jì)念日晚餐總是很隆重，紅酒、玫瑰、燭光一個(gè)都不少。但吃飯時(shí)，劉洋的眼睛總盯著手機(jī)屏幕，回復(fù)著工作群的消息；她說話時(shí)，他常常沒在聽，只是習(xí)慣性地附和 “嗯，挺好”。

“你能不能放下手機(jī)好好吃飯？” 曉雯終于忍不住開口。劉洋皺起眉：“我這不是為了這個(gè)家嗎？你以為賺錢容易？” 他忘了，曉雯想要的從不是昂貴的禮物，而是他能認(rèn)真聽她說話，尊重她的想法，把她放在心上。

上個(gè)月曉雯提出了離婚。劉洋很驚訝：“我對(duì)你不夠好嗎？紀(jì)念日從不落下。” 曉雯看著他，忽然想起剛認(rèn)識(shí)時(shí)，他會(huì)記得她不吃香菜，會(huì)蹲下來給她系鞋帶，會(huì)認(rèn)真聽她講那些天馬行空的想法。

“愛情需要儀式感，但更需要尊重。” 曉雯把離婚協(xié)議書推到他面前，“你送我的香水再貴，也掩蓋不了你不在乎我的事實(shí)；餐廳再高級(jí)，也填不滿你對(duì)我的忽視。”
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簽字的時(shí)候，窗外的月光剛好照在協(xié)議書上。曉雯忽然明白，真正的愛情不是靠玫瑰和燭光撐起來的，而是藏在 “我在乎你的感受”“我尊重你的選擇”“我愿意聽你說話” 這些細(xì)節(jié)里，比任何儀式都更能打動(dòng)人心。